what will be, will be...

it's almost 8 months to date since I have move out of my country, a move that i have yearned for the past 18 years. after all, the age old grass is always greener on the other side... maybe? or that you always want something you don't have. 

so... currently I am living in a country that is so double standard that it is right in your face. but why here? when i revealed my plan it was either that or wow, you are so brave to do this at this age. hmmm, what do you mean by that? so I am at the thirty shades of my life right now, but is that suppose to stop me from jumping into something outrageous like packing up my bags and moving to a country called Korea? nope, I just took the leap of faith and jumped.

many people kept on asking me to go there first and see what is it like there before taking that leap but in my defense I was thinking if I do just that and I end up loving it here, I may constantly be wondering if when will I get to move over here. so I sold my place ( to my bro so I still have a room when I go home ), took the money and hop on a plane. of course, it sounds much easier than that but in fact it wasn't.

here I am, 8 months later in kimchi-land.

"life is simple. everything happens for you, not to you. everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. you don't have to like it... it's just easier if you do - byron katie.